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Love Heroically

Five Steps to Freedom

You have a persistent problem. And you've tried everything. The therapy helped. The books named it. The workshops gave you tools that work beautifully — until the moment arrives and they simply aren't available. Here it is again. Same situation, different day. What if the moment just before the freight train leaves the station is actually a choice point? A small one — almost invisible. But enough.

A practice manual for the triggered moment. Not the calm after. Not the journal entry the next morning. The actual moment — while the freight train is moving, while every justification is available. What does it mean to love heroically? Choosing love when fear has every justification. Staying open when everything in you wants to close. Showing up from the part of you that already knows the way through. That is not a coping mechanism. It is a way of being.

Three Things This Book Does
  1. Shows you the fire — custody battles, jail floors, impossible Thanksgivings that turned out to be miracles.
  2. Walks you through the steps — five steps, ten chapters in couplet pairs. Both the Sir Ego chapter and the Wise One chapter at every step.
  3. Meets you where you are — in the loop, in the mess, in the moment after you've already blown it again.
Who It's For
The person who knows what to do and can't do it in the moment.
The survivor of a narcissistic relationship still triggered years later.
The parent who keeps reacting the same way and watching their child flinch.
Anyone ready for the practice to get real — not the theory, the actual Tuesday.

"She is humble and accepting within her inner peace — and above all, you trust her intentions to teach."

Pacific Book Review ★ Notable Book

"The authenticity and captivating writing style blended well with the imagery and personal stories."

Hollywood Book Reviews

Colin Tipping — creator of Radical Forgiveness and author of the international bestseller — called this story one of the most powerful demonstrations of his work he had ever witnessed. The forgiveness circle that appears in these pages is his. The Thanksgiving table that resulted from it is hers.

Colin Tipping · Radical Forgiveness

The Trigger-meter

Where are you on the meter?

Think of something that triggers you. Where do you land? That spot on the meter is your entry point. The Five Steps meet you right there — in the moment, not after.

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